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Why does the Qur'an allow men to have multiple wives?

Reflection

In seeking understanding about this matter, we find various sacred texts offer different perspectives and guidance within their covenants and dispensations. Within the Christian scriptures, the union of one man and one woman is presented as the foundational model for marriage, reflecting a singular devotion.

The Hebrew Torah, while detailing lineage and societal structures, also emphasizes the covenantal bond between a man and a woman. The Latter-day Saint scriptures echo this, affirming a celestial pattern of marriage as being between one man and one woman, even as they acknowledge historical practices within specific contexts.

The Bhagavad Gita speaks of duty and righteousness in various forms, and the Dhammapada guides towards detachment and compassion for all beings, focusing on the liberation of the mind from worldly attachments and afflictions, with no specific mention of polygyny. The Qur'an, in its guidance for the community, addresses the practice of polygyny, particularly in the context of providing for widows and orphans after times of conflict, with a strong emphasis on justice and equal treatment among wives.

Passages

"And He it is who has created from water man and has made him [of] lineage and marriage, and ever is your Lord competent [over all things]." — Al-Furqan 25:54 · Qur'an

"But the man shall not eat of it, for he is now one of us, knowing good and evil. And now, lest he put forth his hand and take also of the tree of life, and eat, and live for ever: Therefore the Lord God sent him forth from the garden of Eden." — Genesis 3:22-23 · Hebrew Torah

"Nevertheless, neither the man nor the woman can be redeemed from the fall, except through repentance and in the plan of Him who created them." — Moses 6:54 · Latter-day Saint scriptures

"Man is united with woman; woman is united with man. The path of love is not for the impure." — Dhammapada 19:256 · Buddhist scriptures

A Question for You

As you ponder these different teachings, what resonates most deeply with your heart regarding the nature of committed relationships and divine guidance?